The Renaissance Club charity golf day

Join us for 9 holes on the President’s Course at Ferndown Golf Club and a two course meal on Friday 3rd August from 12.30pm in support of our chosen local charities – Julia’s House, Dorset Blind Association and Hope FM.

Make a hole in one and you could win a brand new Smart Car!! There are also prizes up for grabs for 1st, 2nd & 3rd place as well as for the longest drive on the day.

Tickets cost £35 with proceeds going to the above charities.

There are opportunities for members of The Renaissance Club to sponsor the event or holes along the course where banners can be put up. To organise sponsorship, contact Sophie on 01202 611170.

Professor of Schmooze shares her ideas on networking

Julia Hobsbawm has recently been appointed as a visiting professor in networking at Cass Business School, at City University, London, and runs networking club ‘Editorial Intelligence’. She has been dubbed the ‘networking queen’ and the first ‘professor of schmooze’, and now gives her take on the importance of networking.

Hobsbawn believes that effective networking will make the difference “between a highly skilled worker and an average worker“, and encourages people to be more productive.

Through her work Julia has found that many business-people feel isolated and that the old style of large-scale networking, which usually involves walking into a room and standing in the corner, does nothing to dispel this feeling.

Her company, Editorial Intelligence, believes that the best networking occurs in a relaxed environment, like the mid-week dinner party which they host. The idea behind this is that individuals can establish a connection, and a sense of trust, with a fellow business-person.

Renaissance agree with this line of thinking and host regular breakfast meetings on the second Thursday of each month, and lunch meetings on the fourth Thursday of every month. All local businesses are invited to attend, and meet like-minded professionals. Our next lunch is on 22nd March, and we look forward to seeing you there!

Networking Tips

1. Choose face-to-face over Facebook. The best connections are made in person.

2. Eye contact matters. It is the easiest way to find out if you trust and like someone. Never look over their shoulder at someone else.

3. Ask “How are you?” not “Who are you?” We put far too much store on job titles and far too little on whether people like the same things as you do.

4. Be curious. The faster you can connect with someone, the sooner you will exchange valuable information with each other.

5. Network for the long term. You don’t have to “succeed” at networking, you just have to see where it leads.

6. De-clutter your contacts book. Forget being competitive with how many “friends” or “followers” you have. Only connect with people who interest, amuse, or inspire you.

7. Most networking should never take place in a party or conference environment. Rethink your definition of networking to include much smaller, curated gatherings where the exchange of ideas is paramount.

8. And for the shy … Shyness in networking is actually the norm. The antidote is to make eye contact and wait for someone to break the cycle and begin a conversation.

5 reasons to get face-to-face

As René Shimada Siegel said, “No matter what industry we’re in, we’re all in the people business. We’ll only be successful if we really get to know our customers and colleagues.”

Being surrounded by digital technology, it can be easy to hide behind a screen and stick to emailing or occasionally picking up the phone to clients and business partners. It is important to realise and remember how much more you can get from meeting with people face-to-face.

These five reasons from Inc.com are great reminders to step away from impersonal emailing and get out and meet people:

  1. You’re off the record – Offices can often be open-plan and therefore people can’t always have private telephone conversations. Even if there’s nothing to hide, people can be very conscious of others’ listening in on their telephone conversations and not disclose as much as they’d like. Over a coffee or a walk, clients can divulge more, and with more colour.
  2. Make use of not-so-small talk – Most business conversations are held with the aim to solve a particular problem quickly and efficiently. Business relationships, however, are built when people take the time to share and learn more about each other – this is far more likely to happen more naturally in person than in an email or even over the phone.
  3. Make an impression – You can make a far better impression with your appearance and the way you present yourself when people can actually see you.
  4. Read the body language – Facial expressions often communicate far more than just words – and no, a smiley on the end of an email does not do the same job! The ability to ‘read’ more about a person, or even a business, through someone’s body language and facial expressions is something we all have – as long as we meet people face-to-face.
  5. Learn where the action is – Visiting a potential client or business partner in their office allows you to get a feel for their business and learn so much more about their company.

Not only is meeting people for the first time face-to-face important, regular ‘in person’ meetings are vital to build and develop positive business relationships.

We look forward to seeing and speaking to many of you tomorrow morning at our networking breakfast, or if you can’t make it come along to our next lunch meeting and chat with many great local business people.

Stress management programme – Renaissance member offer

Special Offer for Rennaisance members

Would you like to identify how you can manage stress better and change your current behaviour?

JRL is offering a programme to 3 members a reduced price of £200 plus VAT instead of £500 to use as case studies.

For this you will get an Emotional Intelligence Assessment, Feedback report and plan of action to move forward with 30 days coaching.

How do you react to pressure?

Can you control your impulses when under stress?

How sensitive are you to other people’s emotions?

If you would like to find out more, then please contact Jenny on 07795 202982